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Holiday Season ❤

 staff members want to wish the best holidays to the beloved members of this wonderful community. We are convinced that humans are the most important component of any equation and that is the reason why we are so glad and thankful to have you here.

Have an amazing Holiday season and a great 2018, surrounded by love.

Best regards. 

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The Events Feature!

Welcome to The Events feature! 

This is a new feature for VIP members that is already available on tin.dating! It is a great way to let members know about upcoming conferences, concerts, or parties that will take place soon.

We will organize in-person meet ups using the Events feature on the Network and we will invite you!

Each event will include the time, location, event type, organizer, a link to the event’s website, a description, comment wall and a list of RSVPs.

As an event creator, we can choose the event’s features and privacy settings. We can also send out a Broadcast Message to everyone who has been invited to the event.

As Network Creators, we will determine who can create events and choose how to display events on the main page.

So, are you on the list? If so, don’t miss your opportunity to attend the most amazing events!

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The Audio Feature!

Did you know that when you become a VIP member on tin.dating you have a lot of benefits?  And you will love our latest feature! 

Welcome to “The Audio feature”, a wonderful feature that the VIP members of our network will enjoy from now on. We will create and share music files, audio lessons and podcasts. We will not only add tracks, but also create and edit playlists. Click here so you will start enjoying these VIP feature.

Music is an anesthetic for humans… it helps us numb the pain, be happier, enrich our lives. At home, on the street with our earphones on, traveling, when we feel we have to wait forever for something, when everything goes well and when everything goes no-so-well. Music has different benefits for our lives. Children may be the ones who notice them the most, but when you’re an adult you learn to take advantage of it.

Different studies have shown that listening to music has different benefits for our health. It is able to change our mood if we are sad, to reduce the stress and to make us feel better. Music surrounds us and accompanies us everywhere on our mobile devices, on television, in the movies and of course, at the concerts of our favorite artists or groups. When we see that people shout the lyrics of a song, jump, dance and enjoy, it is because the music has positive effects on us. These effects are seen not only on adults but also on children and elderly people. To the elders, something seemingly as trivial as listening to music can alleviate pain, or can be even used to exercise their audition to avoid hearing loss.

This is why, we, the creators of tin.dating have decided to add this amazing feature. Because we are aware of how important music is in the lives of the members of our community.

Tell us what kind of music you would like to be hear… Who are your favorite music genders and musicians? 

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The Polls Feature.

Welcome to POLLS!

We are glad to inform you that our community becomes better and better every day. And now, we want to introduce a new feature that can significantly improve the interaction with you and encourage your engagement.

From now on, members will be able to answer polls on myapp.chat, and with just a click, people will give their opinion on issues that concern everyone.
When we want to know the opinion of the public about something, myapp.chat will be the best place to get instant results. This is a new way to relate to the mass audience of myapp.chat and understand exactly what our members think. And for those who participate, it's a very easy way to make their voices heard.

So far we had some ways to know your opinion: making posts with open questions for members to respond, but now we can create surveys with two options (or more) to answer directly.

The Polls feature” can provide you with a great number of opportunities. Now, the communication with you, network members, will become much faster and much more effective.
Depending on what you want to discuss, we will create a survey (Question Polls) or offer you to choose one of the variants (Polls) to know your preferences and opinions.

Click hereto see the POLLS feature.


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IPA day: the perfect excuse to ask your crush out!

Drinking trends have changed quite a lot as the years went by. I’m not even talking about alcoholic beverages specifically. Our grandpa probably asked our grandma to go out for a cup of tea, because that’s what it was expected back then. Can you picture the face of your granny if a man had told her “hey, let’s go for beer”? Yeah, me neither... she wouldn’t have been very excited about it.

But nowadays, it is super common to go to a nice pub on your first date. It doesn’t mean it’s less serious than going out for dinner, going to the cinema, or going to a museum. Sometimes, it’s even better because people think it’s less traditional and cooler.
Alcoholic drinks are not a new trend, of course. Did you know that human beings started drinking alcohol approximately 9000 years ago?  I bet cocktails weren’t as fashionable as they are today. In fact, cocktails appeared a long time after that: during the "dry" movement (in the USA) alcohol on the black market tasted so horribly that sellers started thinking how they could make it taste a little better. That’s how they started mixing it up with juice, fruits, etc. That’s a brief history of why today we can drink a tasty margarita on our first date…

Even though cocktails are still many people favorite choice on dates, some of them (specially young people) seem to find the idea of going out for a beer even fresher. But it’s not always the same kind of beer… There’re different kinds, and which one you choose depends a lot on your personality, your taste and what you feel like at the moment. It’s said men often prefer brown beer because it has a stronger taste, but that’s a stereotype. Lots of girls today love drinking a good pint of brown beer.

So what’s this “new” trendy type of beer called IPA? The initials stand for India pale ale. At the beginning it was used to provide beer for the British Empire in the east, because the weather was too hot to brew in India, and this kind of beer could survive the journey from Britain.
The prototype IPA was strong, and then it became paler and more refreshing.
IPA was rediscovered in the USA not so long ago, and now it’s a must for pubs.
Today, the first Thursday of August, it is the international IPA day, and it’s supposed to make people talk about IPA so more and more know this great type of beer.
Have you tried IPA? Now you have a perfect excuse to ask the person you like out. Next time you match on Tinder, you first line could be: “Happy IPA day! Wanna go for one to celebrate?” Good luck with that!


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We all know that when we fall in love and start a relationship, everything seems to be absolutely ideal at the beginning.  The first month we think our "bae" is completely flawless. But if you’ve heard Hannah Montana sing you’ll remember the lyrics: “Nobody's perfect, I gotta work it! Again and again till I get it right”. And she was right. 

As time passes, you start to notice that your significant other is, actually, a person like everyone else, so they have defects. This is a good thing! If you decide to stay with someone after you realize they are not perfect, it means that what you feel is real.
But the specialists say that it’s after a period of 5 years when you can figure out if you truly love somebody. You feel you two are one person. In our time, a relationship of five years is not easy to achieve. When we do, we should be proud, because it means we have find a person who is worth it and it also means that we don’t give up easily. There’re always going to be problems in a relationship. Let’s face the fact that the “everything is perfect” phase is temporary.

Some days will be much easier than others. If your partner is going through a rough time they’ll probably won’t be smiling all the time and telling you how pretty you are. You have to learn to accept that some days they can be feeling down and the least thing that will help them is you complaining about why they don’t want to go out for dinner. But, this is very important: no matter how bad they’re feeling, they can’t disrespect you or treat you hostilely. If your partner is having a stressful day, make them a cup of tea, hug them and go to bed with them. But never, ever, let them take their anger on you, because that is a vicious circle, and also that would show you that they’re not exactly good people.

There’re some things you should never say, even if your partner and you have been many years together. For example:

1-Don’t ever insult their family. Not even if you really dislike them. Never say anything about this during an argument.

2- Don’t ever say something horrible about their bodies. This seems senseless because if you are dating someone it means you like them entirely, including their body, but believe me, there’re some people who do it.

3-Don’t tell them not to go out with their friend. Friendship is very important in the life of people. If your girlfriend/boyfriend stops seeing their friends because of you, you’ll end up feeling strongly selfish, and if you don’t, don’t worry… your partner will remind you!

4- Don’t use nasty words you will later regret. When we are angry, we speak without thinking about the consequences. Just don’t say things you know will hurt your partner. Use common sense. 


There’re always things you both can do to stoke the flames of your love! Try going out for dinner at a very romantic restaurant (even if you live together), go skating or picnic. My mantra is: Act like you’ve just met and also like it’s your last week together

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The Paradox of Our Time (George Carlin)

The Paradox of Our Time (Reality set out on paper)

The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings, but shorter tempers; wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints. 

We spend more, but have less; we buy more, but enjoy it less. We have bigger houses and smaller families; more conveniences, but less time.

We have more degrees, but less sense; more knowledge, but less judgment; more experts, but more problems; more medicine, but less wellness. 

We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry too quickly, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too seldom, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often. 

We've learned how to make a living, but not a life; we've added years to life, not life to years. We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet the new neighbor. We've conquered outer space, but not inner space. We've done larger things, but not better things. 

We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We've split the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We've learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information to produce more copies than ever, but have less communication. 

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion; tall men, and short character; steep profits, and shallow relationships.

These are the times of world peace, but domestic warfare; more leisure, but less fun; more kinds of food, but less nutrition.  

These are days of two incomes, but more divorce; of fancier houses, but broken homes. 

These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throw-away morality, one-night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer to quiet, to kill. 

It is a time when there is much in the show window and nothing in the stockroom; a time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete.

Remember; spend some time with your loved ones and the people you want to know you love, because they are not going to be around forever.

Remember to say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.

Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.

Remember, to say, 'I love you' to your partner, your loved ones, and the person out there who has taken your breath away, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.

Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.

Give time to love, give time to speak, give time to forgive and forget! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.

 And always remember: Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

What are you doing with your life?

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Many romantics believe that a name can say a lot about a person, this explains why this aspect of our lives influences finding a partner in the virtual dating world

The dating application Happn shared the names app users find most appealing in Barcelona, Paris, New York and all over the UK with The Independent.

The top five male names that were most attractive to the opposite sex in Barcelona were Marc, David, Jordi, Albert and Alex. And for the girls it was Laura, Marta, Cristina, Anna and Andrea.

They find an unexpected connection between their physical appearance and their first name

In Paris, men are more successful with the names Louis, Adrien, Julien, Vincent or Alexander and women with the name Marie, Camille, Sarah, Charlotte or Pauline.

In the Big Apple, the favorites are Michael, Matt, Ben, Jason and Simon, while the five lucky girl names are Amanda, Nicole, Jessica, Alexandra and Katie.

For British boys, according to Tinder, no one is as attractive to girls as Harry (perhaps, because that's one of the prince's names), Jay, Thomas, Leo and Jack. Among the girls Amelia, Holly, Grace, Maisie and Olivia tend to get more dates than others.

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A programmer undertook the task of creating a software with which he was able to steal 40,000 photographs from users of the social network, Tinder.

Stuart Colianni, member of Kaggle (a machine-learning platform acquired by Google), used an artificial intelligence tool to identify the users, and published them on the internet thanks to this Google tool.

How did he do it? It turns out that Colianni used Tinder's database through a fictional portal to be able to install his software in order to get all those photographs.

The portal TechCrunch said the developer created a data package called 'Tinder People', which included about 10 thousand profile images each. With this, he developed a script with which he was able to extract the images from the Tinder profiles to be able to create a larger facial database than is allowed.

After this fact, Google removed all the pictures form Kaggle, however, the hacker published the code with which he managed to "mock" Tinder in GitHub.

The following was Tinder's answer:

"We take our user's security and privacy very seriously and we have all the necessary tools and systems to protect our platform's integrity.

We're always working to improve the Tinder experience and continue to implement measures against the automated use of our API, which includes steps to prevent and deter scraping."

The company ensured that the hacker violated their terms of service, for which they will act accordingly.

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The New Tinder Plus

The New Tinder Plus

Tinder is releasing a new addition to the popular app. The app, which used to be completely free, has now become a fermium app with a couple of new features. They are useful if you need them but otherwise you could just stick with the free version of the app.

There are two new features of the premium app, and there will probably be more to come very soon. These two new features are the “undo” feature and “passport feature”.

The Mistakes You Make

When you swipe left or right on tinder, its very common for you to instantly regret your choice. You may swipe left and decide you don’t like someone but immediately change your mind and want to go back. These mistakes could lose you the love of your life, and it’s certainly frustrating sometimes.

With tinder’s new undo feature in the paid version of the app, you are able to go back. It just takes one button to undo your last decision and you will be back to that person. Now your mistakes can be fixed and you don’t have to worry about missing opportunities any more.

Travelling Somewhere Nice?

If you are travelling to a new country or you go travelling often then you will love this feature. You are able to setup locations that you are about to go to in the future and have the app find you matches in that location. This means that when you touch down to land, you will have several dates lined up already.

It’s possible to even have dates lined up and expect to stay at their house so you wont even need to pay for accommodation. Talk about travelling light. This new feature in the paid version of the tinder app is certain a useful one. You can plan a full trip and have people to meet all the way through your travels.

These two features are not really much on their own, but put them together and they create some value for the average tinder user. If you don’t plan on travelling much and you don’t really care about making mistakes when you swipe, then this update will be useless to you and you would be better off with the free app.

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A Guide on How To Use Spotify With tinder

Tinder and Spotify work together to improve the search for love (depending on your musical tastes).

Users of the dating application, with or without account in Spotify, will hear snippets of songs that are uploaded on their prospective partner’s profile.

Couples often have commonalities and differences. These connections and dissimilarities achieve a certain balance for durability. Love, when it touches the door, usually gets through the eyes but there are certain aspects that help to realize that first (and important) meeting. And a passion as strong as music is a good component to savor the cocktail of love. To do this effect, two different applications have agreed to merge some of its features. The popular music streaming application, Spotify and the dating application, Tinder have allied to integrate music into the ligue profile service.Thus, from now users can locate potential partners according to music preferences.

Connecting Spotify to tinder

This new way of linking will be simple. Only you must slide to one side or the other based on musical preferences. And indeed, use music and artists as a pretext to break the ice. Currently, Tinder suggests couples based on their preferences, but now users can choose other variable, the music. Each user can spread their musical anthem in their app profile as well as view and listen to top artists from Spotify and slide to one side or the other according to the musical tastes of each person, as explained in a statement.  
  • Tinder Users  with or without an account in Spotify, will hear snippets of songs that are uploaded on their prospective partner’s profile. However, if, in addition, both have account in Spotify, from now on they will be able to navigate and get to know the artists and groups that both of them have in common. For everyone surely has a passion for a musical genre. And many even have a song, a song whose words are intertwined with our personal anecdotes that reflect part of their personality.
  • Simply search through the profile settings in Tinder to connect your Spotify account (or directly download Spotify from the App Store or Google Play to create new account). Please select which of your favorite artists on Spotify you want to share in your personal profile on tinder. And start sliding to see who shares the same musical preference with you.

Spotify in September exceeded 40 million paying subscribers. This partnership will allow you to increase your customer base. Tinder, on its part, claims to have created about 26 million contacts between its users and claimed the first of its dating application had 110 million downloads per day, an achievement in a highly competitive market.

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We are happy to announce the release of Tinder Pc Mobile Chat version 1.0 packed with some really impressive chat features that will give you more chances to Meet More Singles in our Dating Community.

The new Tinder Pc  Mobile web app supports all popular plugins depending on the browser and device compatibility. For example- Audio/Video broadcast, Audio/Video chat / ChatRooms  and Audio chat plugins currently work only in Google Chrome and Mozilla Firefox browsers in Android devices.

Ability to Join Multiple Chatrooms

Tinder Pc Mobile Chat allows you  to create, join and chat on multiple chatrooms simultaneously. You  can easily switch between chatrooms and enjoy group chatting.

Audio Chat in Chatrooms

If Members  in a chatroom don’t have webcams or do not wish to have a video chat, here’s the solution to it! The Audio Chat Plugin in chatrooms now enables you to have an audio call with other Members  seamlessly.


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TinderPc.com was recently featured in an article on DatingAdvice.com, "the authority on all things dating." Here's what they had to say:

"The dating site Tinder PC seeks to expand the reaches of other sites and apps to find singles all over the world from a web browser on your desktop, tablet, or phone. With its online speed dating service, members can find other singles and video chat securely directly from its website, a unique feature in the dating world.
Many people feel restricted by today’s multitude of dating sites and apps — from dictating the area in which you can search for singles to the functionality of matching and messaging.
Tinder PC offers singles all over the world a free way to find and chat with each other online through their dating site, which boasts live video chat and photo-sharing capabilities.
Once you create a free profile, either with an email address and manually setting up your profile or by signing up through Facebook (which will automatically pull in pictures and content), you can begin meeting new singles.
A basic profile is free, but you can upgrade to become a VIP member for just $14.99 to get more promotion on the site, including a badge added to your profile and thumbnail of your VIP status."
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Tinder Moments

There are many reasons why you should put up some photos to promote your dating profile on tinder. The most important one is that you care about your dating life. If you really want someone to find you, and not just anyone, but your perfect match, then you have to be proactive.

When you put up a tinder moment to our dating community, you have much more chance of being found by your special someone. Any opportunity to be found by the right person is a good one. Just imagine being on a coffee date, laughing and joking, and then realizing that you only got there from sharing a tinder moment.

Online dating has become a norm in our society now. It’s so natural to meet people that tinder has become a regular buzzword. However when you set up a tinder account you are not giving yourself much chance of being found. Putting up a profile and leaving it is like putting up a billboard in the desert. The profile is still useful, but if no one is there to see, it’s pointless.

You can also show a more complex part of your personality by uploading different types of moments. A moment by the beach and a moment with your dog will show two sides of you that your perfect match may have not seen before.

Uploading a tinder moment makes you look better and more proactive in the online dating scene. If someone finds you and sees that you are uploading moments, then you have a better chance of them wanting to meet you.

You could wait to get swiped, or take proactive action and join the community. Don’t just stop at setting up a tinder account, you can do more by uploading a tinder moment to our community. With our large community seeing these moments you have a better chance of meeting your match and enjoying more dates.

You could end up with the perfect person just because you uploaded a picture. When you look back from the first kiss, or even breakfast with your partner, you will be glad you uploaded that tinder moment.

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The Top Three Tinder Problems And Solutions

The Top Three Tinder Problems And Solutions

In this article you will discover the top three tinder problems and their solutions. The truth is, these problems are not such a big deal but they can completely ruin your experience with tinder.

Connects To Facebook

Many users get tripped up on this first problem. Tinder connects to Facebook to grab your photos and name. This stops people setting up fake tinder profiles and makes the whole process more streamlined. Think about it, would you want to be getting matched with thousands of fake women?

The solution is really simple just join up. Tinder will not be able to access any of your information and nor will anyone else. The only thing they will see is if they have mutual friends with you, which actually helps you get more interest.

Not Getting Any Matches

This is a big problem for guys and girls. Not getting any matches can completely ruin your tinder experience and make you hate the whole thing. The reason is simple, a bad profile. A profile on tinder is extremely simple. It’s made up of just a few photos and a very short bio.

If you want to get more matches you have to have professionally lit photos. You need to have photos that show you outdoors and smiling. You can have some brooding photos looking away from the camera, and it’s generally better to have all your photos of just you. When you start mixing in your friends in the photos it looks like your trying to say something. However if all your photos are selfies of you in your house, then you are saying the wrong thing.

Get some professional photos taken. The iPhone 6 has a pretty good camera so ask a favour from a friend or family member to take some photos. Then your bio should be very short and sweet. It can be something funny, or plain abrupt. Don’t be a complete nice guy in this section or you will sound like everyone else.

Losing Interest Fast

When you start getting matches you may begin conversations but they soon lose interest. The reason this is happening is because of your lack of intent. What is your intent? Do you aim to get them out on a date, or just hook up with them at your place? Be more straightforward and honest, but not in a rude or arrogant way.

The idea is to show your true intentions in a simple manner, and don’t wait around forever to get to the point. If you just keep asking how she is and what she does, and tell her about yourself, then it feels like it’s not going anywhere, and she will lose interest.


  1. Use this Link  to Report an issue.

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Hillary Duff & Tinder-Why She Chose Tinder for Influence.

The Tinder world has taken more and more celebrities on more joy rides, than a Sunday morning church outing. Tinder has taken off, not only because of it’s a “Snapchat online which you can essentially “swipe” left to not like, and right, to like. But, as the months progress, celebrities such as James Franco, Dave Franco, and a few others to name, is using this app, to actually find dates. The new culprit of 2015 is Hilary Duff. Everyone knows her to be recently divorced with ex-NHL player; Mike Comrie. With every divorce, breakup or split, the “rebounding” nature, comes to life. Yes, we’ve all done it, and can’t say you haven’t once or twice. But this time, it wasn’t for that with Hilary. It was to grab a slice of pizza, and to influence her music video.

As of late, Lizzie McGuire star Hilary Duff affirmed that she is in fact doing an entire webinar on swiping with the universally adored dating application/ bar past time: Tinder. Yet, not just is she searching for adoration on the unimaginably well-known systems administration application, she's additionally utilized her Tinder experiences to frame an account behind the music feature for her most recent single, Sparks. The whole thing with Tinder is to actually see who you can ‘hook’ up with. In Duff’s defense, it was to show how Tinder should be used, and how to take advantage of positive outlooks on life.

You can only gather experiences with this type of thing. You can only see what others are wanting in life; a spark. This is why Hilary has gone with Tinder. Not only to see what it’s like to get a spark with a random, but to see how to approach those types of situations. However, her influence had come at the right time. If you watch her new cover “Spark” Hilary, shows a few dates in the music video. It was to depict her nature as a human being.

But if you think of it, how much did Facebook really pay her? Was this a stunt to get the popular Tinder, more attractive for people, who don’t have the app? Or was it to really see how far can Facebook take it? Only time will tell. 

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Dare to Use Nanaya Love Algorithm to Your Advantage

Dare to Use Nanaya Love Algorithm to Your Advantage

Blindly falling in love with someone might feel exciting and romantic. However, in many ways, it’s like taking a gamble with your love life. If you pick the right mate, you can be rewarded with many years of happiness. But if you settle for being with someone who isn’t your ideal partner, you could potentially be missing out on eventually meeting someone even better suited for you. So what should you do to increase your chances of making the right decision in love? You can try to go about it in a scientific manner by using Nanaya’s love algorithm.

It’s All About the Probability

Have you ever found yourself contemplating about ending a romantic relationship? Then after a bit of debating, did you end up staying in the relationship due to fear of the unknown? Because really, what are your chances of actually finding someone better? Well, that’s a mighty good question. And guess what? The Nanaya love algorithm might just be your key to finding the answer. It uses a bunch of statistical data about you, your personality, and where you live to give the probability of you being happier with someone else upon the breakup of your current relationship. Thus, you no longer have to blindly accept your romantic fate with someone. You can actually base your decision on data that’s made available using both math and science. So you can confidently say that you’re making your romantic decision wisely.

Useful Whether You’re Dating or Single

As stated above, people who are dating can use the algorithm to help them make more statistically sound decisions about their love life. But even if you’re single, you can still use the statistical data to your advantage. After you honestly answer personality test questions about yourself, the folks at Nanaya can then use the test scores to help guide you to where you should be going to meet future romantic interests. Therefore, your chances of meeting a compatible romantic partner highly increases.

Try It Free

The most basic services of Nanaya are free for you to sample. So give it a try. Then if you like what you see, consider paying for the premium report.

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Online dating is a godsend for single women everywhere!

Having the ability to meet many single men by simply logging on to a site is fantastic. It is so easy to meet new people and break the ice before trying to establish more of a connection. When out and about trying to meet guys it can be difficult to feel a man out before agreeing to go out with him. Of course you get a view into his personality and what not but doing so online gives you the opportunity to ask the questions you really want answered since it is easier to control the conversation. Best of all, the online route is a safer way to get to know a person before that first date.

Aside from making the process of meeting people easier, Tinder Plus is great for women because of the matching aspect of it. All too often women get involved with a man and soon discover that he was not the type of guy she was looking for at all. Many sites require that you take an online quiz or assessment in order to match you with other members. Of course these assessments will not find your perfect match but they effectively narrow down the options to avoid those dating disasters. Most sites have thousands of members so a little sorting is helpful.


Lastly, online dating is wonderful for women because it provides an easy way to date, even for those with busy schedules. Many have careers to focus on and may even have children so going out a few times a week to meet men is unlikely but everyone has a few minutes to go on the computer or their smartphone.  Online dating sites have made it so easy to meet other singles and set up dates without leaving your house. Realistically you can be working on a spreadsheet and flirting with a nice guy at the same time.

Overall, Tinder  is a great tool for single women. It has transformed dating lives and resulted in successful relationships.  Improving your love life has never been easier!


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3 Online Dating Tips for Valentine’s Day 2015

For many, online dating is the go-to way to find dates. It is convenient, gives you more options and it works! Online dating is amazing and responsible for so many dates, relationships and even marriages. As Valentine’s Day approaches one thing fluttering around in your mind is probably, “I need to get a date”. No one likes to be alone on V-Day and thanks to  Flindey you don’t have to. Here are 3 online dating tips to ensure you have a date for the fourteenth.

Visibility is Key

No matter what online dating site or sites you use, make sure that your profile says that you are logged on or available when you log on. Members of the site are going to be drawn to people that they know are online. You may think that selecting the invisible setting will not make a difference but it does. When you are online looking for singles don’t you gravitate towards the ones that are obviously online? Enough said.

Message, Message, Message

Whether you are a man or woman, when in search of a Valentine’s Day date you have to initiate contact. When you want something do not hesitate to go after it. In your message introduce yourself, break the ice and see where it goes from there. Chances are you are going to have a few dates scheduled before you know it.

Go On More Dates

Speaking of dates, if you want to enjoy a romantic evening on February 14, you have to date often in the upcoming weeks. You have to make those connections, meet the men/women you connected with online and see if there are sparks. Aim for 3-5 dates a week. Small dates like going out for coffee or drinks is fine. This tip is super effective because you are connecting with a variety of people which increases your chance of getting that Valentine’s Day date.

The tips above are super easy, very effective and are free of desperation. No one wants to be alone on Valentine’s Day. For those who do not have a date yet, the internet is the way to go. Log on, start viewing profiles and go for what you want. You may even find love.

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The best online dating sites of 2015

The best online dating sites of  2015 Part 2

Tinder is a great way to date online. For starters, it provides a really fun and easy way to connect with singles in your area. The idea is really simple. On Tinder, an app that can be downloaded on your smartphone, Facebook profile photos of singles in your area appear randomly and you can respond to the photos with a like if you find them attractive or a no.

When two people like each other’s profile pics a connection is made and you can message each other. Tinder captures the casual and exciting aspect of picking someone up at a coffee shop or club while connecting you with men and women you may have never met. The best part about Tinder is you do not have to set up a profile, answer a questionnaire or be flooded with messages from singles you aren’t interested in.


Perfect match is another stand out of 2014. This is especially so for those really looking for something long term. Sign up is easy and pricing is great. Along with the basics the quality of singles on this site is really impressive. This is a result of their emphasis on matching both personalities and values. The personality inventory test is very detailed and really focuses on users and who they really are inside. As for actually connecting with others, the two forms of communication offered on Perfect Match include sending an icebreaker to users you are interested in along with the option to email through the site.


Our Time is a great option for mature singles looking to liven up their dating life. It is a very user friendly site that is well designed and makes great matches. After filling out your profile as well as the personality profile this site generates matches for users on a daily basis. Another thing that stands out about Our Time is safety. They go to great lengths to protect the privacy and personal information of their members. Communications are encrypted as well as transactions (when purchasing a membership). The site even provides members with additional safety tips.  

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